Recognizing and Decoding Gaslighting Language
Kristen Zuray
Gaslighting is a subtle form of manipulation in which a person tries to avoid accountability by twisting our perception of events. When confronted they might lie, twist our words, or blame us for their wrongdoing. People who use gaslighting techniques are often charming or clever with their words, which means that they generally succeed in attempting to manipulate or distract us from their wrongdoing. It’s a good idea to be able to recognize the language people use when they are gaslighting so that we can have an idea of how to avoid being manipulated further. Offense and defense Gaslighting language takes on two different dynamics, based on the person’s intention....
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