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John Lakvold, MA, LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselor
(509) 209-8961 johnl@seattlechristiancounseling.com

With humility and empathy, I will listen to your concerns and work with you to establish an individual treatment plan catered to your needs and goals. Each person is unique in God’s eyes; therefore, the approach I use in each session will be based on your specific circumstances. Regardless of what you may be facing, hope and healing are possible, with God’s guidance and direction.

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Relationships and Addiction Recovery

In 2019, there were over seventy thousand deaths due to substance overdose. (Peterson et al., 2021). Hospital admissions from primarily...

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Healthy Shame Vs. Toxic Shame

Shame is one of the common emotional schemas experienced by human beings. Emotional schemas are “specific beliefs and dysfunctional strategies...

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Addressing Developmental Needs of Teens

As adults, we probably remember our adolescent years. Adolescence marked a transition from adulthood. We left our childhood and began...

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Are You Sure You Want to Get Divorced? 1
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Are You Sure You Want to Get Divorced?

Divorce is a topic that has become less stigmatized in the last forty years. California began the trend of making...

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What Happens After a Bipolar Diagnosis?

Bipolar disorder is a mental health condition that affects about 2.3 percent of the United States population (DSM V-TR, 2022,...

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7 Things We Cannot Control: How Control ...

The Chinese have a saying: “If something is under your control, why worry about it? If something is not under...

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Couples Counseling: Comparing ...

Baseball was once America’s favorite pastime where children would play in sandlots and fantasize about hitting like Hank Aaron or...

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How to Recognize and Remedy Cognitive ...

Our mind is still a mystery. It has more memory than many computers. It can sort through billions of images,...

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Cognitive-Behavioral Anger Management Therapy
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Cognitive-Behavioral Anger Management ...

Why does my spouse lose his or her temper when we discuss finances? Why does my child throw a temper...

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Causes of Depression: Overcoming the ...

We are born with a clean slate and develop as humans with five senses. Our eyes are exposed to a...

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Healing Your Relationship After the Ugliness of Infidelity
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Healing Your Relationship After the ...

Infidelity is one of the messiest and most damaging things that can be done to a relationship. Frank Dattilio (2010),...

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Why Can't I Stop Drinking Alcohol? Finding Support
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Why Can’t I Stop Drinking ...

The other day, I called a close friend to chat. Our conversation drifted to a mutual friend of ours who...

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